I thought I'd share my feelings/opinions about some current events. I would love it if you read it all. I know I write a lot and sometimes get carried away..
http://nhregister.com/articles/2012/06/13/news/metro/doc4fd82eab75d37784224319.txt?viewmode=fullstory
Here's just a list of some of my tweets on this subject before I get really into it:
I’m sorry but the grad speech/Occupy thing is Grade A Oscar
Meyer Bologna.
Taking the attention away from the other 300 kids graduating
high school is what’s unfair.
Accusing the school of denying you the privilege of speaking
at graduation bc of your political affiliations.
Not accepting the simple fact that you missed the deadline
for submitting your speech.
Leaving school for three months then coming back expecting
to walk and speak at graduation.
Going to the news about being oppressed when you can't abide
by simple deadlines.
Being the representative of a student body then leaving for
3 months and expecting a warm welcome upon return.
Being a typical attention seeking teenage girl and blowing
it to even more obnoxious proportions.
"I just never knew about the deadline,” she has
difficulty getting internet where she lives." Well too damn bad, missy.
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Let's get one thing clear. Molly is a fine person. She's
smart and all that jazz. I have no problem with the Occupy movement. I have a
problem with people being selfish and going to obnoxious ends to extend that
selfishness. I agree with a lot she has to say in her little essay there about
the educational system and all that. But none of that is the point. Anything at
all Occupy related, anything she was going to say in her speech. None of it is
the point. I'm not even going to take into consideration her leaving school for
3 months. Still not the point.
The simple, pathetic truth is that there was a deadline she
did not meet. Speaking at graduation is a privilege, not a right. And I don’t
care if that makes me sound like a pretentious asshole, it’s true. And since
she's all learning in the real world and talking with "real people" (anyone
else personally offended when she slammed EVERY STUDENT at NHHS for not being “real
people”? seriously, Occupy Rude And Morbid Over-generalization) you would think
she would have learned to be a Big Girl. Apparently she learned to value
selfishness. What is she a member of the fucking Bluth family? Back to the
point. She missed the deadline. She lost the privilege. Be a Big Girl and accept
it and take responsibility for your decisions.
But she did not do that. Instead, she decides to be selfish
and make this whole thing about her. Her
not knowing about the deadline is her fault. Her not having proper internet
connection is no fault of the school’s. What she does is takes her neglect for
the deadline and turns it around, leaping to the conclusion that she is being
oppressed because of her civic involvement with the Occupy movement. What? That’s
like me saying I failed my Stats exam because John Kerry flip-flops. No. I
failed my Stats exam because I didn’t study. Sure, I could have blamed Mr.
Jackson’s teaching “techniques.” But instead I acted like an adult and took
responsibility for my actions and decisions.
I could be a little more offensive here. She can’t use the
Race Card, so she’s using the Occupy Card. Welcome to the new decade,
everybody.
The fact the school is letting her come back from a near three-month
hiatus and graduate is a huge act of generosity and I won’t even get into any
possible conspiracy theories with that. There was sure to have been some
bending over backwards for that to be arranged. Yet that’s not good enough?
My brother says she’s just being a typical teenage girl,
seeking attention. That may offend some females for sure, so I’ll edit it
slightly. She’s being a typical CHILD. Not getting her way and throwing a
tantrum, albeit a tantrum with less shrieking and more news coverage.
I know an argument can be made for her not being selfish.
The fact that she’s fighting so hard is because she wants to share her
experiences blah blah blah to her peers etc, etc. I get that. Unfortunately,
you missed the deadline that would allow you to present it to your classmates.
Fortunately, the internet exists. Allowing you to put your speech up there on
the interwebs with the added benefit of anyone anywhere in the entire world
having access and being able to read about your experiences. And no I hear she
will be presenting it at some Occupy thing in Philly or someplace. Good for
her. More people than ever will hear it now.
And I hope that wasn’t some elaborate heist she fathomed
weeks ago. To “miss” the deadline, make a fuss, and then manage to get media
attention so that more people than normally possible would be able to see it. I
don’t think that’s the case, because that’s too…too much like television.
But I still haven’t gotten to my biggest upset about this
whole thing. (And bear with me, I’m wrapping up soon) It was the first thing I tweeted about. Now, I
don’t know the exact number, so I will round to 300. 300 other kids. 300 other
kids graduating from high school. Some may not think it a big deal, but most
do. (And any of you who’ve read my Glee posts know that I think it’s a huge
deal) 300 other kids graduating from high school who will now just be known as
the 300 other kids who graduating with Molly Gambardella. 300 other kids who
got any attention and notice taken away from them because one girl had to bring
her selfishness to unreasonable (and apparently newsworthy) proportions. Okay,
I’ll need to reference her involvement in the Occupy movement to further my
point. She became an outspoken member of the “99%”: a group of people with a
common goal, a brotherhood with a like cause. Much like many people consider their
high school class to be. She’s the president of the Class of 2012. And this
stunt is not being a leader for them. What is a high school class’ common goal,
like cause? No, not “to graduate high school, get into college, get a good job
and get money” (what Molly so effectively connects to The Matrix (see, I can compliment
the girl, too)). But to grow with
each other, learn from each other, coexist with each other in the same
building, same town, for 4, 7, sometimes 13+ years (from pre-K to grade 12).
Growing, learning, coexisting: things Molly didn’t learn to do, apparently,
until she became involved in the Occupy movement. I’m glad that she learned these things, but
upset that she has been unable to see the connections with that to her high
school class. Her selfish actions, though maybe derived from pure intentions,
have unconsciously caused her to weaken the special bond one has with their
senior class and to steal away the attention of a large group of her peers that
she so unfortunately considers to not be “actual real people.”
I will be attending graduation on Thursday. I will leave any
potential protesters be. I will politely clap for Molly as she receives her
diploma (to what I can only assume will be a glorious mix of thunderous cheering
and courageous boo-ing from the crowd). Just as I will politely clap for every
student that walks across the stage, shakes Dr. Dallai’s hand, and gets their
picture taken (I hope it’s not as hot as it was in 2010, where it was so hot my
face was as red as my gown was maroon). Most of my focus, though, will indeed
be on my cousin, Cristina Capriglione. (Here’s betting our family can create a
louder response to her crossing the stage than to anyone else’s. Cowbell FTW)
And that’s all I have to say about that.